Simi talks about how motherhood influences both her music and her marriage
Simi, the singer-songwriter Simi Kosoko, recently discussed how becoming a mother has profoundly influenced her life and marriage. She shared these thoughts during a recent interview with CNN’s African Voices, where she emphasized the transformative nature of motherhood.
According to Simi, the experience of becoming a mother was intense and brought about a significant change in her identity. She mentioned feeling like a completely different person the day after giving birth compared to the day before, highlighting the immense responsibility and decision-making that comes with caring for a child.
In her own words, she stated, “Until you see this human being that you’re now suddenly completely responsible for and you have to make choices about, you don’t really understand the gravity of that situation.”
Simi also discussed how motherhood has impacted various aspects of her life, including her role as a woman, artist, friend, and wife. Despite the challenges and adjustments that come with motherhood, she expressed gratitude for having a supportive husband who shares the responsibilities.
Speaking about her marriage to fellow musician Adekunle Gold, Simi reflected on the irony of initially deciding not to date someone in the music industry. However, their mutual respect for each other’s craft and ability to set boundaries has strengthened their relationship.
In terms of advice for aspiring artists, Simi highlighted the competitive nature of the music industry and emphasized the importance of passion, focus, and determination. She encouraged artists to love what they do and remain dedicated to their dreams despite the challenges they may face along the way.
