Joro Olumofin Reveals Why Men Leave Their Wives After Becoming Wealthy
Relationship blogger and psychologist, Joro Olumofin, has stirred up conversations online by sharing his insights on why some men leave their wives after attaining wealth. Olumofin suggests that many men initially marry women they can afford, only to “upgrade” their partners once they become wealthy. His advice to women is to marry already established men who choose them as their “dream girl” rather than a “condition wife.”
Key Points from Joro Olumofin
1. Initial Marriages Based on Affordability:
– Olumofin notes that many men marry women they can afford at the time.
– Once these men attain wealth, they often seek partners who match their new financial status.
2. Loyalty to Day-One Women:
– While some men remain loyal to their initial partners, it’s safer, according to Olumofin, for women to marry men who are already established.
3. **Advice to Women:
– Women should focus on building themselves rather than suffering to build with any man.
– Marry a man who has seen money and chooses you for who you are, not because of his financial condition at the time.
Social Media Reactions
– **Keecare:**
– “Nothing but the truth… Don’t suffer to build with any man … build yourself as a woman .. there so many conditional marriages.. husbands using innocent women to reach their selfish goals..”
– **_Sahidat:**
– “Am not married but with most couples have seen so far you’ve said it all 👏👏👏”
– **Cakeblissandmore:**
– “You have a point, but this happens when a man probably marries for physical looks, like classy type, so he goes for his level. But as a man grows, his woman should grow with him. If he marries the woman for what she carries, as his upgrading he carries her along. Make her your spec, make him your spec. That’s why you marry for what the person carries because beauty and handsomeness will fade eventually. I keep saying it, marriage is for 2 intentional people.”
– **Cynthiabrightney:**
– “Everything he said🙌🙌 that’s when they now realise the slightest fault and you were never their spec😂”
– **Iamjadesola_brown:**
– “Tor both condition man or established man, no one way I get.”
– **Vicksbeefood_pastries:**
– “I married the best man and he married me his best woman ..m I can’t relate.”
– **Queendarlyn___:**
– “You’d know when u ain’t ur partners spec man or woman! If u pay attention, u will see that. Now if you’re originally his spec, if he gets that breakthrough, he will be more than willing & happy to spoil u & all. But u with a man & know u are not his spec but u refuse to let go… How to know his spec? He has social media! He watches movies, listens to music U can get a glimpse of his true spec from how he reacts to specific women in movies, music etc.”
– **Adesuwa._Juliet:**
– “You’re saying the truth.”
– **Officialmelvinp:**
– “Never will I marry for survival or for the moment.. Never!!!”
– **Ceo_lolas_clothing_empire:**
– “Marriage dey fear me 😢 the problem too much 😂 make nobody use me do condition wife oo 😂😂.”
– **Onlineinvestigator_spyapp:**
– “The level of infidelity is alarming, spy on ur spouse/ partner today don’t wait till you get hurt. Trust is not built in a day get to know the truth about someone u spending your whole life with.”
– **Amaaka.og:**
– “I don’t agree.”
– **__.Favour__:**
– “So true 📌.”
– **Shuga_8:**
– “The last part was my response on instablog and some people are crying. It’s the same thing for most women who married early, when they later open eye they see that they settled for less.”
– **Veeky98:**
– “👏👏👏👏.”
Conclusion
Joro Olumofin’s insights have sparked significant reactions, with many agreeing and sharing their perspectives. His advice to women to focus on self-building and marry established men has resonated with many, though not without some dissenting opinions.
